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Wednesday, 13 April 2011

DBM/ Lactivist Giveaway - Winner!


M picking the winner's name out of the pink watering can. 
We had 80 entrants!



Congratulations to Julie Spriddle


Thank you to everyone who entered, and especially thank you to Lisa at http://www.lactivist.co.uk/ for providing the giveaway prizes! 

Please keep your eyes peeled for another giveaway - coming VERY SOON! :D

xo anne

http://www.boobbaby.co.uk/
http://www.expressyourselfmums.co.uk/
http://www.kjransonphotography.co.uk/
http://www.more4mums.co.uk/
http://www.les-marguerites.fr/
http://www.lactivist.co.uk/

Wednesday, 6 April 2011

DBM Giveaway #2!

This next giveaway has been made possible because of the generosity of Lisa at Lactivist.

For anyone who hasn't heard of Lisa, she is something of a 'pioneer' here in Britain known especially for her work online to promote breastfeeding. 

She runs several breastfeeding-related pages.  www.lactivist.net/ provides support and information to all those with an interest in breastfeeding issues, and Lisa also has two shops at www.lactivist.co.uk and www.lactivistbling.co.uk/, where you can buy all kinds of amusing and practical goodies from cloth bags to nursing necklaces!

Lisa not only created the Lactivist pages, but she also maintains them, and is the creator of such memorable slogans as 'I let my parents sleep in the big bed with me', 'milk from my mum not from just any old cow' and 'I'm a tit man'

Lisa doesn't take a wage from her sites and uses her considerable skills in graphic design to produce and design many of the tongue-in-cheek products she sells online.  She has also helped to champion many other breastfeeding-related businesses and websites over the years.  She was very supportive of DBM in the early days (and you can see that her support continues) and I am personally indebted to her for her help getting this group/ blog off the ground.

Often people who provide breastfeeding support, as well as 'lactivists', come in for criticism for their opinions.  It seems impossible for some to 'get their heads around' the fact that the majority of breastfeeding support in this country (the UK) is provided by volunteers, and is completely without financial reward.  Those women who offer to support other mums in their choice to breastfeed are often described in less-than-flattering terms by the press as well as by those who make different life-choices - however sometimes I think their objectives are misunderstood. 

The vast majority of the time, those being criticised really, genuinely want to support other mums with good information  - whether they end up breastfeeding or not! 
More often than not, 'lactivists' are making a statement about an industry (the formula industry), which too-often operates outside of reasonable ethical boundaries, not about the issue of personal choice

I think this is a good time to point out that Lisa, (just one woman, working without a wage and raising a child on her own), has made a significant impact by being willing to put herself forward as a spokesperson about breastfeeding issues.  I think that's very brave - particularly where the press are concerned - and I take my hat off to her!  I also want to thank Lisa for offering us something to 'giveaway', and for supporting DBM since the start :)

This week's fab freebie giveaway prize will be a pro-breastfeeding t-shirt AND a pro breastfeeding shopping bag of the winners choice courtesy of www.lactivist.co.uk

To enter, all you have to do is leave your name as a comment along with your answer to the question below (a,b, or c), under this blog entry...

What is the correct medical name for the 'saggy boobs' caused by pregnancy, weight gain/ loss, age, genetics, and lifestyle factors but scientifically proven not to be related to breastfeeding ;) 

Is it:

a)  breast-involution
b)  breast-ptosis
c)  breast-mastalgia  ?


My glamorous assistant (dd) will draw the winner in a week's time, on Wednesday 13th April and the selection process will be overseen (once again), by an independent adjudicator (dh!).


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This giveaway is the second in a series which is being generously supported by the following companies:

We have a Winner!

All the correct entries in the pink watering can...

M picks the winner!

and the winner is.....



Congratulations Bridget!  A worthy winner!  You've won two nights luxury B&B accommodation at Les Marguerites! 
Please email bcboobies@hotmail.co.uk so I can put you and Antoinette in touch!




Thank you to everyone who entered!  For those of you NOT called Bridget Cavanna, please feel free to enter our next giveaway, which I will be posting about REALLY SOON!

Stay tuned....

:)

Saturday, 2 April 2011

Mother and Baby Magazine shows its true colours on breastfeeding.

Some of you may remember this article from last year, in which the (then) sub-editor of Mother and Baby magazine shared with the world her opinions about breastfeeding in an article called 'I formula fed, so what?'.

To summarise, she 'couldn't be fagged', thinks breastfeeding makes your 'fun bags' saggy, missed a drink, and she hates the 'milk mafia'.

The article was absolutely chock-full of myths and misinformation.  As well as those given above (no - it doesn't make your boobs saggy, yes - you can have a drink, and no - not all breastfeeding mums belong to a milky version of cosa nostra...), here's a few of the others:
  • Breastfeeding is 'creepy' - (er, no, that's only in your head Ms Blundell).
  • Breastmilk has 'the edge' over formula - (that would be quite an edge then..)
  • It's impossible for breasts to be 'dual function' (ie. for breastfeeding and for sex).  Load of rubbish - most of us manage just fine with other parts of our anatomy - so what's the big deal...?
It seems that somewhere in the past Ms Blundell had a run in with a 'breastfeeding advocate' with a big mouth (apparently a stranger likened her use of formula to 'poison').  That's a real shame - perhaps Ms Blundell wouldn't have written such a bitter article if she hadn't felt humiliated for her choice to formula feed? 
Her heels seem well and truely dug in now though, and her mind entirely closed.  That's really sad to me, since many mums do go on to breastfeed later babies even if they formula fed their earlier ones. 

At the time - like many people -  Kathryn Blundell's article really pissed me off.  However, the energy it created meant that the DBM blog (and others!) came into being and I felt that something positive had come out of something horribly negative.

I have to say though, my heart just sank when I read this article the other day. 

In spite of the media circus which followed the publication of Ms Blundell's article (and the fact that Mother and Baby Magazine showed a complete ignorance of basic breastfeeding truths), the magazine's owners have now decided to PROMOTE Ms Blundell to the post of Editor, Mother and Baby Magazine.

Yup - the UK's biggest-selling baby/ parenting magazine has appointed an editor with a openly anti-breastfeeding bias. 

If her most famous piece is anything to go by, the new editor of Mother and Baby magazine doesn't consider it at all important to get the facts about breastfeeding right.  That is - to me - extremely worrying considering it's a publication which is being read by pregnant women all over the UK right now.

I will never advocate for the sort of 'bullying' Kathryn Blundell says she experienced.  There is always a reason why someone didn't breastfeed.  Perhaps they were duped by the formula industry into believing that formula really is almost as good.  Perhaps they didn't get any support at home.  Perhaps they got really bad advice.  Perhaps they had no confidence in themselves.  Perhaps they have some darker reason for not breastfeeding that they will never tell anyone about.

Making a 'judgement' of any mother - no matter how prickly and full of it she seems - is pointless and only ever results in breastfeeding getting the blame.  I'm a firm believer in leaving the door open and never saying never... 

However, I have no faith whatsoever in press self-regulation.  I have no doubt that Ms Blundell and her team will continue to print rubbish about breastfeeding and when they do I hope we can work together to try and correct them.  

Hopefully that way fewer women will base their decisions on a bunch of myths like Kathryn Blundell did.